You know you've done something either terribly right or terribly wrong if you've made your girlfriend cry in bed. Just a moment before, things were going quite well, it seemed. And by things, I mean sex. After a morning spent cleaning the apartment and going for a run together, we nestled into the couch with the goal of watching a movie, but soon we were holding hands and rubbing arms.
Getting your relationship to stay hot and sexy sexually is possible. Sometimes it can be spontaneous and other times you might have to plan it out but who cares. Making time to keep the connection between you and your man is one of the most important things in your relationship. Men are physical creatures.
Every relationship has periods of ups and downs, both times of passion and times when we feel too busy for romance. If your sex life has been down lately, perhaps it is time that you and your partner switch things up. Aim to rekindle the passion and anticipation you once felt for each other just as you try to heat up sexually. Set a more passionate tone, be more adventurous, and be more spontaneous to break out of your romantic rut.
To bring that spark back to life, use these crucial tips for spicing up your sex life. One of the most important and fundamental ways to approach spicing up your sex life is by talking about it. Perhaps one or both of you are experiencing a lot of stress, or one of you is feeling less sexy than usual because of body image issues. House suggests bringing up the sex talk when the two of you are in bed together, ideally cuddling after a sexual moment. By asking focused questions and giving focused information, you will be able to make this conversation constructive and encouraging, even fun and exciting.